第十三章~我的心理测验
Your view on yourself:
Other people find you very interesting, but you are really hiding your true self. Your friends love you because you are a good listener. They'll probably still love you if you learn to be yourself with them.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love:Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.

Your views on education
Education is less important than the real world out there, away from the classroom. Deep inside you want to start working, earning money and living on your own.
The right job for you:You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.
Who is your true self:You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

第十二章 ~ 失恋启示

以下是某部剧本里的台词。。 很有意思哦。。。注意看哦。。 失恋的人们。。

被放弃的人不是输家，在爱情的过程里面， 我们一直站在付出比较多的那一方，所以受伤、嫉妒、开心、欢笑、所有爱情的感觉我们都比对方多了一倍。。 当然伤害也会多了一倍。。不过这些。。 现在对方都感受不到了。。全部都留给我们承受。。不过也正因为我们比别人多了一份爱才有力量在伤痛中重新站起来。你可以选择在原点自怨自艾， 任由对方对你予取予求，夺走你努力争取来的一切，或者你会抬起头勇敢面对， 让大家看到你是可以重新站起来，而且比以前更加耀眼坚强。。

第七章~因果啊

喔哦！！ 现在令我想起一首歌。。 叫做“凌晨三点钟”， 因为现在的时间是凌晨一点钟了。。 咦， 我会这么晚才睡， 是因为刚刚和两个朋友一起玩网上游戏pangya。。 还蛮好玩的。。 呵呵 。。 对了。。 刚才我打了好多的电话出去。以为很容易可以找到朋友陪我看戏。。而且是免费的。。 但是每个人都没空。。 有空的却不敢看。。 还有。。 还真麻烦。。 不管怎样还是要感谢郭佳美小妹妹。。 因为她有空陪我啊。。 呵呵。。 谢咯。。

嗯。。 还有。。 我今天看了一本有关因果的书。。 不像我吧。。 居然会看这种书。。里面有一些文字。。 是这样写的：

古代的人,凡做一件善事,就在瓶子里放一颗红豆做记,做一件坏事,另一个瓶子有放一颗黑豆. 一年后,算一算自己做过多少公德, 以做检讨..

for those who dun understand the above passage..

this is the translation: Whenever the ancient people have done a good deed, they will put a red bean into a bottle as a mark. And when a bad deed has been done, they too put a black bean into a different bottle. After a year has passed, they would count the beans to check on the number of good and bad deeds that they have done and think of what they should have done.

第六章~快乐

今天似乎感觉不错，没有烦恼，没有伤心，爽啊！！

原本不知道要写些什么，后来想想看，就告诉大家一些必有钱更快乐的事。。

第一则：接受不完美

（更宽大的心情， 更勇敢的精神）

完美代表着一种绝对不能出差错的要求，它可以说是一种压力。。 但是完美并不是一种罪过，它只是能够给人一种莫名的情绪。 每一件事都有两面，就拿个例子吧，考试成绩。。 先说考试吧。。 考场失利并不表示从此就前途暗淡了， 古今中外许多的政治家，科学家，企业家。。。 等等。。 他们会那么成功并不是因为他们拥有优异的学业成绩， 有些甚至被误认为是智障儿童，而他们的成长过程也是非常艰辛的。。 但是他们却学会接受自己的不完美，而更努力的面对人生获得比成绩优异的收获。。

不完美并不代表放弃努力，反而使学习如何用更宽大的心情，更勇敢的精神去面对未知 ,在愉快没有压力的状况下，你的表现会出乎意料的完美，而心情也会随着变好。。 对吗？？

第二章~都是文凭惹的祸

我终于收到信了！很明显的，我失败了！！ 我想我也太趾高气扬了！！ 毕竟我根本就没有那个能力考上国大。。 不是吗？？ 就说说一些开心的事吧!! 我终于觉得当女人未必是件坏事.. 想想看.. 在任何一种灾难中,妇孺永远是拥有优先权的...呵呵!!! 我应该开香槟, 庆祝吧!! 我会这么想,也是因为我今天去看了一部灾难片,叫<海神号> , 看了以后,只让我觉得乘搭渡轮未必是件安全的事, 回想一下,<铁达尼号>,,<海神号>,都是这种题材.. 我是喜欢刺激,但是人中会怕的啊!! 我看多了这种戏,我也会产生恐惧感的啦!! 我想以后还是少看为妙..

回到现实我只能说, 我不知道要怎么办!! 我进不了的大学, 怕没有学位,怕没有文凭, 怕被人笑,我真的确确实实是一个新加坡人,因为我也拥有很多的"怕".. 我想我现在真的不敢抱太大的梦想. 我现在只求一个大学肯收我,出来以后, 有一份工作,不用太高的薪水,只要养得起自己就ok 了!! 不知道这种想法会不会办不到!! 其实要求不高嘛,但是我想这是很难完成的!! 因为新加坡的学生也未免太多了吧!! 都是文凭啦!! 什么都要文凭, 没有文凭会死啊.. 在新加坡,我想,我想应该会吧!!

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